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“Fighting,” as in yelling at each other and saying mean things, is not a productive or effective way to solve the issues in your relationship. I also know (now) that intense fights are not necessary. So I understand what it feels like to have had a terrible blowout fight, said things I regretted, and feel worried that irreparable damage has been done to your relationship. Before I became a marriage counselor, the adventure husband and I spent a good deal of the 90’s trying to knock the corners off each other, sometimes dramatically. Any marriage counselor will tell you that the sanest, most intelligent, reasonable, successful people - brilliant CEOs, steady-handed surgeons, unflappable news anchors, and uber-rational captains of industry can all become unhinged in the heat of the moment. I can also tell you that, as an online couples counselor and couples therapist who’s seen a lot, everyone is capable of going absolutely bananas during a relationship fight. IS YOUR HEAD SPINNING AFTER A TERRIBLE RELATIONSHIP FIGHT? How To Get Your Relationship Back On Track and Recover From a Fight

Angry red button how to get past fight back